In the last week of my internship, I found myself taking stock of everything I’d experienced so far, and seeing what I had left to improve upon. Certainly my Bahasa Indonesia was coming along, but not perfect, reaching a point where I began to realize that unless I continued to immerse myself in it it would not get any better. I made an effort to stop by a few neighbors’ houses, bringing biscuits (as Jeanine recommended) and asking if I might be able to practice with them. People were generally receptive, and I had a great conversation with our neighbor Joseph that started with religion and ended with eye color. The difficult thing about learning in the village, though, is that people are way more interested in learning English than I am with B.I. Here, English is a trade skill, a real sign of higher education that everyone from the primary school kids to the head of the village wants to practice with me.
Everybody, it seems, except Ameh. He’s totally cool to just speak B.I. to me, and sometimes just mutters in Manggarai whenever I’m around. I still like him though; in some ways he kind of reminds me of my dad. He has a good sense of humor, although (unlike my dad) when he laughs you can tell he’s been smoking like a chimney for most of his life.
Anyways, with the coffee and the cinnamon packed up, and the bulk of the old data entered into my computer (now running a trial version of FileMaker Pro), I began to make plans to leave. I decided to bring Eddy along with me, since I wanted to buy him a new pair of shoes (his got wrecked on the trek to Waerabo) and take him out for a drink, he being probably my single greatest source of entertainment for the whole time I had been in Tado.
On the very last night, we had a goodbye dinner that was real fun; lots of food, and afterwards singing. Many neighbors stopped by.
In the songs that followed, I was extremely fortunate to hear the community get together and sing a little bit. Manggarai singing is something that I had experienced in Waerabo, and thought that I had seen the highest and most magical form of it there within a circle of three men. However, with Eddy playing guitar, and Adol leading in most of the verses, song after song came streaming out of the two men. The best part, though, was when the women, and then the children started joining in; I was totally helpless, barely being able to comprehend any Bahasa Indonesia, let alone Manggarai, let alone singing. So I had to just listen.
It really made me think about how special singing is, especially in most rare form, that of lots of people singing together and meaning it. I’m reminded of the songs that I sing with my rugby teammates after games, the Christmas carols I sing with friends and family at a certain time of year, the alma mater at my college, a national anthem, and the rock music I listened to in high school with my best friends from home. People singing, with little or no instruments, together, and meaning it. It’s a pretty special thing.
Hard to top that one. I went to bed soon afterwards, and slept like a baby.